Today’s episode comes with a TRIGGER WARNING for intimate partner violence and child abuse. The National Domestic Violence Hotline can be reached online 24/7 in over 170 languages at at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).

Hal and I hadn’t had a chance to talk about Ray Rice and the NFL’s intimate partner violence issues yet, so there was a lot of ground to cover. We talked about Friday’s ridiculous press conference (Go, Rachel Nichols!), why Roger Goodell has GOT to go, the revictimization of Janay Rice with the video release, and how law enforcement isn’t the answer to a cultural problem.

We also touched on It’s On Us, a new campaign to end sexual assault. As with most programs, I’m in favor of parts and the intention as a whole while viewing segments as problematic. Having stars like Kerry Washington and figures like President Obama say the phrase “It’s on us to prevent sexual assault” is pretty revolutionary if seen in the context of culture change. The pledge is clear that ANY and ALL non-consensual sex is assault, full stop. And that we must create safe spaces where survivors are believed and supported.

The “bystander intervention” aspect is very “take the keys from your friends” campaign-ish and emphasizes situations like stranger rape and group party settings — which are the minority of assaults. Most assaults happen in the context of established relationships (friendships, dating, new partners, etc) and reinforcing that misperception is a problem. But I’m glad to be living in an era where the president of the United States feels he must weigh in on the plague of sexual assault. So, I’ll take this as a jumping off point and continue to call for even better programs and campaigns.

Links to on-air references:

Get caught up: "How the Ray Rice scandal unfolded between the Baltimore Ravens, Roger Goodell and the NFL”

In case you thought it was just Ray Rice: "San Francisco 49ers, NFL scrutinized after domestic violence arrests”

Ravens offered Ray Rice a staff job “acclimating new players to the league” — and other atrocities: "ESPN: Ravens official told Ray Rice video was '(expletive) horrible,' but team didn't pursue tape”

From Dave Zirin: "Why NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell Must Go and Who Should Replace Him”

SIGN: #GoodellMustGo petition from Ultraviolet

My piece for The Frisky on censoring survivors and revictimizing Janay Rice: "The Soapbox: TIME Shouldn’t Question #WhyIStayed”

A must read from Brittney Cooper, aka Professor Crunk: "The racial parenting divide: What Adrian Peterson reveals about black vs. white child-rearing”

#ItsOnUs pledge

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